Pay attention to the other person (and yourself)
Notice the other person's cues. Consider what they're saying and expressing as very valuable to you.
As you listen, check in with yourself from time to time and notice your own feelings. If you feel tense, go to the first step - let your shoulders drop and relax as you take a mindful breath. Then focus on the other person.
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