<div><p>A relationship based on compatibility can make you feel safe and content. Relying on that feeling can become a problem if you become too dependant on your partner.</p></div>

Feeling Safe

<p>Some people fall in love with someone they never thought would be a good fit. </p><p>Be open to date outside of your 'type'. Try and find someone that surprises or challenge you.</p>

There Are No Surprises

<p>When you are in love, you won't constantly think about what your current relationship is lacking.</p><p>If you continually feel that your relationship is missing something, you may need to go find someone who behaves in the way you desire.</p>

Desiring an ideal relationship

<p>You may have similar views and enjoy doing fun activities together, but this may not be enough to hold your relationship together in the long run.</p><p>It is also important to be romantically compatible.</p>

You Don't See Them In Your Future

<p>If you find a list of flaws in your partner that you want to change, you may be focussed on compatibility. </p><p>Love is comfortable in accepting your partner without thinking of ways to change them.</p>

You want to change your partner

<p>When you're in love, you should be comfortable to reveal your good and not-so-great emotions.</p>

Not needing to feel vulnerable

<div><div><p>If you can only describe your relationship as nice, but it lacks the spark of attraction, it may be difficult to be happy in the long-term. </p></div></div><div></div>

Your Relationship Is "Nice"

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