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Become Goal-Oriented

Try to set goals for yourself. Imagine that you have already achieved that goal in the future. This process helps you visualize yourself in your changed lifestyle.

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Self-confidence without competence is of as little use as is competence without self-confidence.
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  1. Improve your competencies
  2. Put them into practice
  3. See results
  4. Grow more confident
  5. Repeat