Telling Someone They’re Being Hurtful
Calling them out when they truly cross the line makes you vulnerable. You’re making your feelings and opinion about the other person known.
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"Vulnerability" has become a bit of a buzzword in pop culture and as such, often gets distorted into something it's not. Here's what being vulnerable really is and what it can and can't do for you.
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