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10 Proven Ways to Make Your Own Luck

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Lucky people give freely of their time and resources.

Giving reminds us of how lucky we already are.

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10 Proven Ways to Make Your Own Luck

10 Proven Ways to Make Your Own Luck

https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/286336

entrepreneur.com

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Be social

Put yourself out there and meet more people, because people bring connections and connections bring opportunity.

Also, keep in touch with your established relationships.

Visualize

If you have a goal in mind, imagine the stepping stones to your success. Seeing each detail in the path to success is key.

Help others

Lucky people give freely of their time and resources.

Giving reminds us of how lucky we already are.

Welcome chance

If you do not consider new things, you are bound to feel bored and stifled.

Be open to new things. This will expose you to other opportunities or help you to see things from a different perspective.

Be on the lookout for luck

Sometimes luck is something you can find if you allow yourself to look for it. Luck is about learning where to find an opportunity.

Be aware of your circumstances and surroundings to notice and act on opportunities.

Take a chance

If you don’t push yourself out of your comfort zone, you’ll never know the true extent of your abilities.

Allow yourself to be versatile and wear different hats. Act when you spot an opportunity.

“You will miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.”

“You will miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.”

Hard work

Create your own luck through hard work.

Lucky people have a positive attitude and are resilient when bad things happen.

Unlucky people tend to be fatalistic and believe that no matter how hard they work, they will be unlucky.

Focus on the positive side

The grass might look greener on the other side, but you also have opportunities on your side of the fence if you will only look for them.

Look for the silver linings even in what seems like a bad situation.

Setbacks happen

Failure is part of life. Accept that there will be moments when you’ll feel down in the dumps.

Don’t give up. Look for a new angle to approach your problem.

Stay in the present

Instead of getting fixated on things beyond your control, focus on what you can do.

Staying in the present allows you to see all the little things that you have become oblivious to. It enables you to see the opportunities in front of you.

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Ask people to explain it to you a few times. Keep asking questions to really get to the root of the problem. 

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Put things into perspective

No matter how awful your situation may be, rest assured that someone else has been through the same thing. 

It is important to realize how your situation compares to the rest of what you are doing, and how bad it really is compared to all the good things in your life. 

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Keep yourself accountable

Making a commitment to yourself helps keep you accountable. 

Write your goals down, keep a to-do list with you, and create reminders on your phone and on your calendar.

Make yourself accountable to others
  • Tell everyone what you plan to do and talk about your goals. Tell friends, employees, and employers your intentions and you won’t want to let them down. 
  • Start documenting and sharing your journey. A blog or vlog where you share the projects you’re working on and your progress will encourage you to get things done. 
Cut out temptations

If you’re a chronic procrastinator and simply can’t resist the temptations of things like Facebook and Youtube, it might be time to cut out temptations.

There are tools such as Rescue Time, SelfControl and Focus that will temporarily block access to distracting websites like Facebook. Less aggressive tools such as Facebook Newsfeed Eradicator and Distraction Free Youtube will allow you to have access to Facebook and Youtube but block the distracting parts of these websites (such as the newsfeed).

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