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How to Disarm Internal Triggers of Distractions

Dealing with intrusive thoughts

While we can’t control the feelings and thoughts that pop into our heads, we can control what we do with them.

But we don't have to fight them, we just have to find better methods to handle them.

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  • Affiliation needs (association and belonging). We are motivated to form long-lasting positive relationships with others.

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  • Cue 2: Location - Most powerful driver of mindless habits and also the least recognized
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  • Cue 4: Emotional State - emotional state is a common cue for bad habits
  • Cue 5: Other People - people you surround yourself with can play a role in your habits and behaviors.