Despite the fact of the numbers he sold and fame he earned , he was a loser and he knew he was a loser . His success didn't stemmed out with the will to be an outshining literary star and to defy the odds but with his comfort of being a loser He worked hard and published openly about being a loser .

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Charles wanted to be a writer but for decades his work has been rejected by almost every publisher, jounral, newseditor . Deprave, disgust they said .As the piles of failure stacks upon, the burden pushed him into an alcohol fuelled depression which will follow him for rest of his lif e.A small independent newseditor took a strange intrest in him and wanted him to give a chance . Charles knew that it was hisfirst and last real shot ......Charles made out as a best publisher writing 6 fucking novels and more than 200 poems .

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of his own . Feeling motivated 😊. But that's the problem .Because his EPtiah reads - DON'T TRYA story which embodies an American dream .A man fights for his dreams , struggles and ultimately achieve his wildest fantasy .

His Success Defied Everyones' Expectations Particularly 

Our society is obsessively focused on forced unrealistic positive expectations .be happier, be healthier,be best better than the rest . Be envied ,more admired and crap out twelve nuggets of gold before going to your willingly wonderful job .but when you Really stop thinking about this conventional life advice , it is which fixating you on the things you lack ask yourself a question , how many times gave you seen someone sad or living a normal life on instagram or Facebook .Man fuck this metallistic world yo enjoy this fucking life .............

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Chapter -1 Charles Bukoski was an alcoholic, a lout , womanizer , cheapskate ,a deadstick and on his worst days a poet . He is probably the last person you would ever look for a life advice .That's why he is the perfect man to start with...

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Stay commited to your decision . But stay flexible in your approach .Atleast read end paragraphs

They help me to live my life out with comfort .

#1 New York Times Bestseller Over 1 million copies sold In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people. For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up. Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek. There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.

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#1 New York Times BestsellerOver 10 million copies soldIn this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.

Mark Manson (born 1984) is a professional blogger, entrepreneur, and former dating coach. Since 2007, he's been helping people with their emotional and relationship problems. He has worked with thousands of people from over 30 different countries. He regularly writes and updates his blog at: www.markmanson.net

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