Work on Your Projections

As a kid, each of us had different dreams about how we wanted our future to be.

But down the lane, most of us tend to deviate from that.

We learn new things as we grow up, and some of them become part of our habits.

If we look back most of us have cultivated certain habits which...

This is the extreme form of emotional reactivity. What happens is that:

• We tend to recall past disputes with revised dialogues (when they said this, I should've said that);
• We imagine arguments that haven't taken place yet; and
• We feel that other people mak...

The vastness of the unknown can feel overwhelming, which is why people feel uncomfortable with accumulating books they haven't read. But embracing the unknown is what drives discovery.

The antilibrary is then a reminder of everything we don't know. Being...