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Rule 2: Treat yourself as someone you are responsible for helpin

Imagine someone that you treat well, that you love, and try to treat yourself that way, he says.

You’ve got to think, I'm a person among other people, and I deserve at least as much respect as a person among other people.

Help yourself across time instead of being self-contemptuous and self-destructive.

Take care of yourself as if you're potentially valuable, and lay out life in that way.

As an individual, you have a light that you have to bring into the world. And if you don't bring it into the world, the world is a dimmer place. And when the world is dim, it can be very, very dark.

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Rule 11: Do not bother children when they are skateboarding

New skateboarders do crazy things because they're trying to become competent. They're facing danger. They don't want the damn protective gear.

It's like, "no I don’t wanna wear a helmet,"

"I want to expose myself to this dangerous thing,"

"It's not that I'm stupid,"

And th...

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Rule 10: Be precise in your speech

The unnamable is far more terrifying than the nameable.

No matter how terrible the actuality is it's rarely as terrible as your imagination because your imagination has seen a lot of terrible things in the history of life.

It can put monsters everywhere.

And so, it's almost alwa...

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Rule 1: Stand up straight with your shoulders back

Peterson says we ought to be combative, but surely it’s more about preparing for combat. Life is suffering, and we ought to adopt a stance of ready engagement with the world. We should reflect that in posture too, he says.

Prepare to engage in the battle for your right to live, to think, t...

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Rule 12: Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street

You have to be alert when you're suffering.

You have to be alert to the unexpected beauty in life.

You have to look for those little bits of sparkling crystal in the darkness when things are bad.

Being grateful for what we have can get us through some very dark times.

If w...

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Rule 7: Pursue what is meaningful and not what is expedient

Meaning is what you have to buttress yourself against the tragedy of life despite the fact that you're a fragile, damaged, and mortal creature. It is when you found something to do that announced itself as worthwhile.

Meaning tells you when you are in the right place. And the right place is...

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Rule 9: Assume the person you're listening to knows something you don't

You want to enter into a conversation so that you come out wiser than you went in.

Figure out what winning the argument really means. Winning when you're wrong is a really bad idea because then you think you’re right, and you’re not.

You might want to listen because there is the possi...

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Rule 4: Compare yourself to who you were yesterday

You should be better than you are.

But it's not because you're worse than other people, it's because you're not everything you should be.

And so, you got to pick the comparison right, compare yourself to you.

And then that's also ennobling. Instantly hopeful.

There is ...

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Rule 3: Make friends with people who want the best for you

Like you have an ethical responsibility to take care of yourself, you have an ethical responsibility to surround yourself with people who have the Courage,

Faith,

And Wisdom,

To wish you well when you've done something good,

And to stop you when you're doing something dest...

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Rule 6: Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world

There are plenty of things to criticize about being. It's tragic.

You can complain about that, but the thing is, if you complain about that, if you adopt that attitude - which is sort of an Anti-Being attitude - you go places that if you knew you were going you probably wouldn't want to go....

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Rule 8: Tell the truth or at least don't lie

Don't underestimate the power of your speech, the power of truth.

There's nothing more powerful.

To speak what you might regard as the truth, you have to let go of the outcome.

Nothing brings a better world into being than the stated truth. You might have to pay a price for that...

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Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for Life

I recently read 12 rules for life by Jordan Peterson. Let’s walk through all 12 rules using his commentary on them as found in his lecture series: 12 Rules for Life. All 12 rules and unedited descriptions of them can be found in this video her...

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Rule 5: Do not let your children do anything that makes you…

dislike them.

If you're good to your kid in a real way, you can help maintain that tremendous attractiveness that they have as young children.

And then, wherever they go adults welcome them and teach them things.

And pat them on the head and smile at them genuinely, instead of s...

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chanceadrian

UT Austin. Polymathic Scholar. Evolutionary Biology.

Some of these rules, namely 4, 6, 7, 8, 10, and 12, are truly transforming my life. As young adults, it is easy to feel so disorganized, to feel lost, and without anything concrete to grasp. These rules, or more worldview suggestions, offer me something that I can firmly believe in and test out in my very real, chaotic life. After all, these ideas are someone's antidote to chaos. And now, some of them are mine. I hope you can find them as useful as I have!

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If you catch yourself on a self-deprecating rant, check in with yourself and ask, “Would I say this to _____? ” If the answer is “no, ” then you don’t deserve to be spoken to in that way either. Don’t let these insults pass without defending yourself against your own negative self-talk.

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