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7 Interesting Habits Of People Who Are Always Described As Charming

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Charming people do not speak ill of another person. Even when they're giving others constructive criticism, they take care to do so as encouragingly as possible.

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7 Interesting Habits Of People Who Are Always Described As Charming

7 Interesting Habits Of People Who Are Always Described As Charming

https://www.bustle.com/p/7-interesting-habits-of-people-who-are-always-described-as-charming-2989668

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Make People Feel Important

A charming person makes everyone, regardless of their status, feel important. People around them feel heard, understood, and worthy of their time.

Remember Names

It feels good to hear our own names, and when someone uses it we're more likely to pay greater attention to them.

Use mnemonic devices if you have a hard time remembering names.

Compliment With Confidence

When someone known for their charisma compliments you, it gives the impression that it is not only sincere but valuable, because of their natural confidence.

The"Resting Nice Face"

It's easy to come off as endearing when you're also always appearing friendly and approachable.

Actively smiling regularly can lift your mood as well as that of others around you.

Tell Good Stories

Endearing people are natural storytellers. They captivate and entertain with their stories, without overt bragging.

Talk With Your Hands

Research shows that people who communicate with their hands are viewed as more agreeable, warm, and energetic.

Never Talk Badly About Others

Charming people do not speak ill of another person. Even when they're giving others constructive criticism, they take care to do so as encouragingly as possible.

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Be Swift and Sweet

Keep the conversation moving at a comfortable but somewhat brisk pace. Don’t cut the conversation short if things are going well, but also avoid hitting uncomfortable lulls. So when the pace starts to die down, it's time to make an exit.

On your way out make sure that the other remembers you. 

A Simple Touch Can Go A Long Way

Touch is a physical way of indicating acceptance and if properly timed it can be very charming

There's nothing wrong with a handshake when you introduce yourself, but beyond that, don't abuse touch. Stick to safe zones like the outside of the arm and upper back, and when in doubt, just stick to those handshakes.

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Put on a happy face

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Not all is lost if your first impression has not been as good as you hoped. If you can impress someone afterwards, they will often not remember their first impression of you.

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