Asking questions puts the focus on the other person, and lets them know you value their opinions and experiences.
Research shows that people who ask more questions during conversations are perceived as more responsive and are better liked by conversation partners.
Asking someone follow-up questions about something they told you is particularly effective because it shows that you are listening and interesting in what they have to say.
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