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The anti-mentor

The anti-mentor

An anti-mentor is someone you've noticed playing a radically different game to yours. 

For example, the social status game: People live to create a particular social impression. They buy a car, they dress, buy a house. But it's not the game you may be playing. So when they then look down on you, you think that's a good sign because you're playing a different game.

If they criticise you, you will feel good because you are not playing their game. You are playing a different game with different rules.

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Running away from your problems is a race you`ll never win.

An anti-mentor is someone who, when they look down on you or disagree with you, you know you're doing something right.

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