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2. Filter out the noise (the stuff that stings). That is not the relevant bit. Your feelings might be hurt by the challenge, or the approach of someone challenging, but that is is not the issue here. Righteous indignation as a response to perceived harmful behaviour often comes from a place of deep hurt and systemic marginalisation. You must acknowledge this with grace.
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So, you have been challenged, now what?
1. Take a breath, and a step back. You do not owe anyone an immediate response, despite the perceived pressure to do so on social media.
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