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When you act assertively, you can combine that attitude with either anger or warmth in four ways:
Angry and assertive – People who use this approach demean and insult others. This behaviour is rare in most workplaces.
Angry and not assertive – People who use this tactic mix hostility and low assertiveness to create an attitude of “cold contempt.” Eventually, employees may avoid or conspire against each other.
Warm and not assertive – People who act this way are often seen as “doormats.”
Warm and assertive – Unlike the first three combinations, this mixture can yield positive results.
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