We often focus too much on the results. Zhuangzi talks about how different prospects can influence our actions and emotional states if we attach ourselves to them.
In the context of a date, we want the other person to like us, and if we don't succeed, we feel miserable. Instead of just enjoying the evening out, it becomes a stressful event with lots of mental preparations. However, entering a date unprepared lets you act natural. You are present in the moment and most people love that.
If we let go of the results, we can act more effortlessly and responsively.
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