The Bottom Line - Deepstash
How To Be Good at Parties

Learn more about psychology with this collection

How to network effectively

How to read body language

How to find common ground with others

How To Be Good at Parties

Discover 96 similar ideas in

It takes just

12 mins to read

The Bottom Line

The Bottom Line

Science favors the romantics. Love at first sight actually is experienced by people, but it's not so much "love" or "passion," Instead, it's a strong pull or attraction that makes someone particularly open to the possibilities of a relationship. Love at first sight can happen multiple times, and maybe the instances where it fizzles or simply never translates into a relationship are forgotten.

But when love at first sight does launch a sustained relationship, the story is a great one.

14

107 reads

MORE IDEAS ON THIS

Love At First Sight

Love At First Sight

Love at first sight: Is it possible? Do people really meet and in moments simply know they're meant to be? New evidence suggests: Yes, they do.

The idea is wonderfully romantic: Two strangers see each other "across a crowded...

15

157 reads

Love at First Sight Isn't Just Biased Memory

Love at First Sight Isn't Just Biased Memory

People really do report experiencing love at first sight in the instant they encounter a person. It's a strong initial attraction that would later become a relationship. One compelling counter-argument—that people have biased memories and essentially create the illusion of having fallen for each ...

14

134 reads

Men Report Love at First Sight More than Women

Men Report Love at First Sight More than Women

The researchers aren't sure why this happens, but it begs more investigation. Might women be less inclined to this experience because they are more selective in whom they might date, as other research has shown? Men might, for example, report this experience with multiple potential partners. But ...

13

118 reads

Love at First Sight Isn't Really "Love"

Love at First Sight Isn't Really "Love"

The kind of qualities that are known to reflect love—intimacy, commitment, passion—are not particularly strong in those first moments when people say they've fallen in love at first sight. At least, these emotions are not exper...

13

102 reads

Love at first sight isn't usually mutual

Love at first sight isn't usually mutual

A comparison of participant reports of love at first sight showed that it's typically a one-sided phenomenon; this suggests that shared instant love isn't very common. The researchers suspect, however, that one partner's intense initial experience could help shape the other person's reco...

13

107 reads

You're More Likely to Feel Love at First Sight with Beautiful People

You're More Likely to Feel Love at First Sight with Beautiful People

In this study, strangers were more likely to report experiencing love at first sight with physically attractive others; in fact, one rating higher in attractiveness on the scale that the researchers used corresponded with a nine t...

13

138 reads

CURATED FROM

CURATED BY

graham_k

A little bit of narcissism never killed anybody, or has it?

Love, dissected by Science.

Related collections

More like this

To love or not to love

  • While love at first sight is real, it's not all perfection. If you don't think you might be subconsciously misplacing some feelings, go for it.
  • Don't be afraid to break up if you feel the relationship is over.
  • Don't confuse needing someone for loving someone. While you ma...

The Reinforcing Trap

The relationship between an overfunctioner and an underfunctioner translates into dangerously reinforcing each other's habits: The overfunctioner takes on more than their fair share of responsibility from housework to finances while only reinforcing the underfunctioner's depe...

The right mindset for successful learning

A strategy to adopt is to embrace relearning opportunities. It may mean there's a chance you'll fail, but adopting a policy of embracing opportunities will lead to better skills in the long-run.

Acting as if you have not forgotten when you choose projects might push you to...

Read & Learn

20x Faster

without
deepstash

with
deepstash

with

deepstash

Access to 200,000+ ideas

Access to the mobile app

Unlimited idea saving & library

Unlimited history

Unlimited listening to ideas

Downloading & offline access

Personalized recommendations

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.

Email

I agree to receive email updates