Kids have been naturally avoiding schoolwork or household chores way before video games came in the picture.
And moderate video game playing, less than three hours a day is not an addiction but can actually be beneficial for the cognitive and reflexive development of kids.

Moderate Gaming

There are certain psychological needs that kids look for:<ul><li>Competence: Kids need to compete, grow, and attain mastery over tasks.</li><li> Autonomy: A sense of freedom and control.</li><li> Relatedness: A want of being worthy to others while wanting others to matter to us as well.</li></ul>

Unmet Psychological Needs

Ultimately, parents’ intention should be to help kids learn strategies for self-regulating their habits.
By fostering intentional taskwork, and helping kids make proper choices, parents can help kids obtain what they are looking for.

What Kids Want

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<li>When we see kids playing videogames all day, we think they are addicted, and that it is harmful.</li>
<li>In most cases, there is no addiction, but just overindulgence,</li>
<li>In cases they do seem addicted, it may be due to some unmet psychological needs.</li>
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Fortnite, like any well-designed video game, satisfies what we are all looking for. According to Drs. Edward Deci and Richard Ryan, people need three things to flourish. We look for competence -- the need for mastery, progression, achievement, and growth. We need autonomy -- the need for volition and freedom of control over our choice.

What Kids Want

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