Nice guys track all the help they did.
Psychologically they subconsciously expect the same effort in return as they did.
High-value people don't expect in return.
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These are a few traits that make you miserable because after a certain point people will start taking advantage of you and at that moment you'll have to draw a line and prioritize yourself over everyone else.
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