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Find answers to these questions

  1. How can I be sure that I’ll be happy in my career? 
  2. How can I be sure that my relationships with my spouse and my family become an enduring source of happiness?
  3. When life sends you in the wrong direction, how can you be sure you'll stay out of jail? 

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The best way to find answers to life decisions is to understand the framework that guides the answers.

With the framework in mind, anyone can answer their own questions more insightful than an outsider can.

Frederick Herzberg states that the motivator in our lives isn't money.

  • The motivator is the opportunity to learn;
  • To grow in responsibilities;
  • To contribute to others;
  • To be recognized for achievements.

How you interact with people affect their lives.

For instance, if an employee feels underappreciated, frustrated and undervalued, her self-esteem will be affected. In turn, it will influence how she interacts with her family.  But, if she had learned a lot and are recognized for her achievements, she will positively affect her spouse and children.

The deep rewards in life come from building up people.

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Social Narrowing is a subconscious process in which we are spending time with people who are similar to us.

This phenomenon can be a problem when we need new resources, ideas or a new career.

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The Person You Want To Become

To be the person you want to become, embrace the following:

  • Courage to follow your passion
  • Gratitude
  • Hope
  • Keeping promises to you and your loved ones
  • Courage to face the day
  • Being what you want to become.
Being wrong and self-image

You seek evidence that confirms your beliefs because being wrong feels unpleasant.

Being wrong means you’re not as smart as you thought. So you end up seeking information that confirms what you already know.