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When should you say you have empathy for someone?

When should you say you have empathy for someone?

The short answer? Almost always. By trying to relate your friend's feelings, you're not only validating them and their reaction; you're also letting them know that the emotional reaction they're having is okay—it's human. The key here is that the other person should then act on their feelings in an emotionally intelligent or constructive way. Empathy does not give them a free pass to respond however they may want.

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The Difference Between Empathy And Sympathy

The Difference Between Empathy And Sympathy

One is better than the other in most situations.

Thought they were the same? You're not alone (an empathetic reaction) and sorry if this is jarring information for you (a sympathetic reaction). But the two emotions are totally different.

They feel different, when a person has empathy,...

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When should you say you have sympathy for someone?

When should you say you have sympathy for someone?

When you think you might be leaning toward sympathy or pity with a loved one, remember to relate to them through the feeling they're expressing. When was the last time you felt such a way, and what do you wish someone might've told you during that time? That can help guide you toward an empatheti...

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How does compassion play into all this?

How does compassion play into all this?

Compassion is the basis of both sympathy and empathy. Leonard likes to think of compassion as "trying to understand and feeling for another person," which means it's a useful tool in both sympathetic and empathetic reactions. Sometimes, tapping into your compassionate side can help you bridge the...

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What Is Emotional Sobriety?

What Is Emotional Sobriety?

Empathy, helps a person feel less alone in their plight and feel connected and close to someone. This can help them feel that they’re more apt or able to solve their own problems.

You may not have gone through this person's exact situation, but you can tap into other moments in your life wh...

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To break down the concept of empathy vs. sympathy further:

To break down the concept of empathy vs. sympathy further:

When you're expressing empathy...

  • You try to connect with the person.
  • You offer validating statements that let the person know it's okay to have these emotions.
  • You might respond with phrases like, "I get it. You have every right to feel that way."
  • ...

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Compassion Quote

Compassion Quote

“Compassion is the wish to see others free from suffering.”

-Dalai Lama

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Situational Usage

Situational Usage

Empathy and sympathy each have their own set of circumstances where one might be the best emotional reaction over the other. Sometimes, you might want to try to relate to someone on their level—and if you've ever been in their position, that may even come naturally. Other times, you might not be ...

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What It *Actually* Means To Be An Empath

What It *Actually* Means To Be An Empath

One example she gives to illustrate this difference: If a sympathetic person sees a houseless person, they might give that person change and go on about their day. An empathetic person, however, would spend time with a houseless person, maybe taking them for a meal, and attempt to connect with th...

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Empathy vs. Sympathy, Explained

Empathy vs. Sympathy, Explained

The biggest difference between empathy and sympathy is how much you are trying to connect with someone on a personal level in your interaction. Empathy is when you really listen for a feeling and try to relate to the feeling for a moment and you convey an understanding of that person’s feelings, ...

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3. You struggle with empathy

3. You struggle with empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share others' feelings, crucial for successful relationships. Individuals with high levels of empathy have better social interactions and lower risk of rejection.

Struggling to see things from others' perspective or respond ...

Showing Empathy

  1. Show them that you notice their change in behaviour. We must acknowledge the other person's unhappiness and let them know that we want to know more about what they're experiencing without trying to cheer them up.
  2. Ask them: "Can you help me understand?"

Types of empathy gaps

  • Cold-to-hot empathy gaps. When someone is in a cold (emotionally neutral) state, they have trouble understanding someone in a hot (emotional state). A calm person might be unable to predict how they will act when they're upset.
  • Hot-to-cold empathy ...

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