Humans have an inbuilt drive to belong and be accepted. This makes us care about what others think of us.
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<li>In the pre-historic times, human beings couldn't survive if they were not part of a group. This makes belongingness part of our genes, which shaped our natural selection.</li>
<li>In the modern age, as we get more social and mobile, it is no longer necessary to be part of a group, as it is not crucial to be accepted by everyone. It helps to know how to care less about what other people think or do.</li>
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Belongingness

Out of novelty and boredom, we started being part of 'imaginary' groups just because it is cool to do so. There are groups in social media, or in clubs/bars, in which people join due to desire to be accepted.
If we have our friends, family, a career and a few hobbies, we don't need to attach our identity to a group.

Staying Clear of Imaginary Groups

Discovering your core values, and having a vision is key to finding your mission. You have to know where you want to go (Vision) and create a road map that takes you there (Values). Having these foundational pillars in your life makes us less susceptible to what others think and do.

Mission = Value + Vision

It's ok to disappoint others, instead of falling in the trap of doing obligatory and unnecessary work, as many kind and thoughtful people end up doing. It is ok to say NO to others, as the most important task you have is to live up to your core values and your mission.If people are disappointed with you, it is a revelation that they are selfish, and are not concerned with the wellbeing of others.

It's Ok To Disappoint Others

Create your own closely-knit group of true and authentic people in your family and close friends.
You need to stop bothering about or getting influenced by other people and realize that you don't need to be part of other groups.

Create Your Own Group

5 min read On the outside, it often looks like people don't care about others. It appears that people are selfish. But if you take a closer look, you'll see that everyone is affected by what other people think and do. Let me give you a few examples: The guy ...

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