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SOFTBOILEDPOTATOCHIP

When you express a boundary, they try to guilt trip you, pressure you, or threaten you to try and force you to do things you don’t want to do.

SOFTBOILEDPOTATOCHIP

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SUVENPAN

They remember you are their friend only when they need something from you.

SUVENPAN

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NAUTIQUEG

Treats animals poorly

NAUTIQUEG

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CYPRESSWILL44

So this should be obvious but it's not. As a guy, don't trust another guy if he cheats on his spouse. If he'll betray the closest person to him, he doesn't care about his friends either, trust me

CYPRESSWILL44

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PIZZADELIVERY313

Throwing trash out of a car window, littering

PIZZADELIVERY313

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CSTOGDILL

Nothing is ever their fault.

CSTOGDILL

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PURPLES_A_FRUIT

They constantly say or do things where their only justification for doing so is "It was just a joke" when called out on it.

PURPLES_A_FRUIT

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210 reads

LIZZYD08

How someone treats another person based on their job title. Anyone who treats a server, maid, garbage person, etc like crap is just telling the world how much a piece they are.

LIZZYD08

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FORCULUS_OF_ROME

If they brag about how they pulled a fast one on other people. As if to say how smart/slick they are and everyone else is stupid.

FORCULUS_OF_ROME

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261 reads

JCHOLLEY81

They never apologize.

JCHOLLEY81

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SEBABDUKEBOSS20

It's always about them. They're always the hero or always the victim in their stories.

Can't take criticism but probably dish it out to everyone else. They're never wrong.

SEBABDUKEBOSS20

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BLUEEYESREDLIPSTICK

A lot of times they’ll straight up tell you. Anybody who gleefully tells you “I’m such an asshole” or “I’m such a bi*ch” is usually not joking, even if they say it while laughing.

BLUEEYESREDLIPSTICK

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SKY_DRIVER88

I guess a subtle one is them treating you differently in public vs how they treat you privately. These can both go either way.

SKY_DRIVER88

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PINKCUPCAKEXD

When telling you about issues in their life and everything is everyone else’s fault/ no accountability

PINKCUPCAKEXD

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377 reads

I_AM_DEAN

Always talking shit about other people when they aren’t around.

I_AM_DEAN

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MIDDLEZEALOUSIDEAL89

Treating people well only if they can benefit from them in some way. If they treat you well, but treat random people like shit, they aren't good people. And they'll treat you like shit too if you ever stop being of use to them.

MIDDLEZEALOUSIDEAL89

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268 reads

MINDFULBLISSNESS

When they cannot bring themselves to celebrate someone else’s success.

MINDFULBLISSNESS

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cristianmezei

@Deepstash Co-founder. Tech geek. Dinosaur. Dad. Chef.

Seem easy to spot "bad" people right? Not always I guess. Reddit is really a treasure if you know what to look after. Thousand of folks gave their thoughts, and voted on other's. Ideas kind of make sense, by sheer statistical number, from people's perspective.

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Pay Attention to the People You Surround Yourself With

Be aware of the other emotions and mood you experience when you’re around other people too. If someone tries to force you to go on guilt trips, set boundaries. Refuse to be “guilted” into doing things you don't want to do.

Clarity

Clarity

Writing down your goals will force you to clarify what you want. It will drive you to pick your destination.

Imagine setting out on a trip with no particular destination in mind. How do you pack? What roads do you take? How do you know when you have arrived? 

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