BLAMING YOURSELF
Definition : Instead of identifying the cause of the problem, you choose to blame.
Rational Answer: Self-blame is a behavior that makes it difficult to analyze and prepare a plan of action. If there is a bad situation, the wrong done and the cost of this wrong are determined. An action plan is prepared and implemented. If there is no mistake, that is, if the other party's reaction has caused this thought, the importance and principles of border protection are remembered, and if necessary, this situation is reminded to the other person.
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