Remaining present and intimate with the moment requires "maitri" - the Buddhist practice of loving-kindness toward oneself.
With "maitri", you're not trying to solve a problem or making the pain go away or becoming a better person. It is giving up control altogether and letting concepts and ideals fall apart. Thoughts and emotions come and go, but basic nowness is always here.
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