Similarly, questions make you much better at connecting... - Deepstash

Similarly, questions make you much better at connecting with people . Everyone loves being asked questions and to talk about themselves , so instead of rambling about yourself at the next party, start asking new people all about their story. Where did you grow up? What do you do for a living? How do you like it?

As in business, so in life: curiosity connects.

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