As valuable as having a sense of independence is, taken to an extreme, this can actually get in the way of us being able to connect emotionally with others in a meaningful way. Emotional intimacy with a partner can be difficult to achieve, even scary or not seen as particularly valuable in a relationship, for those who have an extraordinary sense of independence.
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When we think of our ideal relationships we often think of a wonderful, lifelong relationship with our most important person. How do we build that kind of relationship?
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