When you stop expecting to be able to make... - Deepstash

When you stop expecting to be able to make someone feel better, you can start taking real steps to connect with them in a heartfelt way and become genuinely supportive.

Bad moods and painful emotions are hard to handle, both in ourselves but also in the people we work and live with. While it's not possible to "fix" another person's emotional struggles, there are a handful of practical skills you can learn to help you be more genuinely supportive and helpful in the face of other people's bad moods.

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