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4. Practice gratitude for good things

4. Practice gratitude for good things

This should be practiced rather than focusing on the negative things. It's human nature to see negative things as bigger and more important than positive things, but this also does tremendous damage to your self-esteem. When you find yourself focusing on negative or less favorable events in your life, immediately try to name 3 to 5 things that you can be grateful for. Look for the positive side even when bad things happen to you.

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6. Pull yourself away from assumptions that the worst will happen

6. Pull yourself away from assumptions that the worst will happen

This sort of "catastrophizing" is really bad for your self-esteem because you spiral from a small error to basically believing that everything is doomed—and that's rarely the case. Challenge those thoughts with realistic and logical observations to reframe your conclusion.

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How To Love Yourself 💖 (Part 1) ~ Treat Yourself With Kindness

How To Love Yourself 💖 (Part 1) ~ Treat Yourself With Kindness

This means you recognize your own self-worth and live your own life as honestly as you can.

Focus on the things you like about yourself rather than insulting yourself. Talk to yourself like a BFF

Celebrate your accomplishments and reward yoursel...

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5. Speak kindly to yourself

5. Speak kindly to yourself

When you call yourself a name, you reduce yourself to a single thing that you don't like—you're not treating yourself as a whole person. If you wouldn't call your best friend these names, don't call yourself those names either!

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1. Let Go Of Negative Thoughts About Yourself.

1. Let Go Of Negative Thoughts About Yourself.

Let go of negative thought patterns and beliefs about yourself. Drill down to the core of those negative thoughts and tell yourself a different story. Think about what you would say to a close friend who said those things about themselves.Don't try to fight negative thoughts, tho...

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2. Accept your flaws as part of who you are.

2. Accept your flaws as part of who you are.

Everything you've done and everywhere you've been is a part of who you are—you!

Self-love isn't about fixing all the "bad" things about yourself. Instead, accept that they're all parts of the same whole. When you love yourself, you love all of you because you wouldn't hav...

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3. Focus on your effort

3. Focus on your effort

If you expect yourself to be perfect all the time, you'll never be pleased with anything you produce. This can lead to low self-esteem. Instead, make a point to appreciate the work you put into completing a task, rather than looking for flaws in what you produced.

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For the practice of gratitude, start by writing down the things you are grateful for daily. Grab a journal and write down three things each day that you are grateful for.

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 Practice Gratitude

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It's impossible to feel both grateful and unhappy at the same time.

being grateful can improve self-esteem, reduce negative emotions like envy, reduce the risk of major depression. Grateful people also tend to take better care of their health, exercise more, sleep better.

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4. Practice gratitude and generosity

In the world of positive psychology, gratitude and generosity can only be understood correctly when we see them as disciplines rather than responses . A discipline is something we practice regardless of our circumstances. If you are waiting for enough m...

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