Why We Need Validation?
As children, we rely on our caregivers to validate our existence and our worth. They do this by responding to our needs, showing us affection, and praising us for our accomplishments. As we grow older, we continue to seek validation from others, but we also learn to validate ourselves.
We are social creatures who thrive on belonging and connection. When we receive validation from others, it makes us feel like we are part of something larger than ourselves. It helps us to cope with difficult challenges. When we are going through a tough time, it can become pancea
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