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Dropping the stories

We can’t stop the mind from producing stories but we don't have to cling to them let them occupy our heads.
  • Notice when you’re stuck in a story.
  • Notice that the story is causing you to be stressed or afraid.
  • See if you can drop out of the story and into the present moment.
  • When you go back to your story (because you will), try coming back to the present moment, without judgment. Stay longer.

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