2. Don't Preach

While we know the value of small talk, it still falls short of what many people are craving: meaningful conversation, where we can dive deeper.

A key feature of deeper conversations is that you get absorbed in the conversation and learn something important about yourself, the other person...

The best way to maintain close relationships is through everyday talk. Don't just reduce conversations to logistics such as what to have for dinner.

When you ask, "How are you?" you have actually to listen to the answer. You can't assume that you already know what's going on.

To have a successful and productive conversation with your partner about your needs and desires:

• Timing is everything. Set a time aside together that is free of distractions, relatively peaceful, and not when you are overtired.
• Remember, you're on th...