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Establish a baseline :

Establish a baseline :

Understand a person's normal behavior before interpreting deviations as meaningful. A baseline allows you to notice when behavior changes, possibly indicating shifts in feelings or attitudes.

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Eye Movements

Eye Movements

Eye behavior can provide clues to a person's thought processes or feelings.

For instance, lack of eye contact can imply discomfort or dishonesty, whereas direct eye contact tends to signify confidence and honesty.

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Facial Expressions

Facial Expressions

The face can be revealing. While some people can control their facial expressions to a degree, microexpressions often slip through, revealing genuine emotions.

  • Happiness: Raised cheeks, raised lip corners, "crow's feet" wrinkles around the eyes, tightened muscles around the eyes

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Lastly

Lastly

By understanding these principles, you can better interpret the nonverbal cues that people give off, potentially improving communication and understanding in social situations. 🙂

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Synchrony and Mirroring

Synchrony and Mirroring

When people are in rapport, they tend to mirror each other’s movements and postures. Observing such synchrony can indicate a good connection and agreement.

Here are some examples of synchrony:

  • In-phase: Behaving in the same way as the other person, such as crossing t...

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Observation is Key:

Observation is Key:

Become an adept observer of body language. Noticing subtle physical changes can offer insights into a person's thoughts or emotions.

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Clusters of Gestures

Look for clusters of body language signals. A single gesture might not mean much, but a series of signals can provide a clearer indication of a person's state of mind.

For example; while you asking serious question to a person, “telltale cluster” of nonverbal signals associated with ly...

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Posture and Positioning

Posture and Positioning

A person's stance and the way they position themselves in a space can indicate their attitude and level of engagement.

Leaning towards someone often shows interest, whereas leaning back could imply disinterest or a desire for space.

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Context Matters

Context Matters

Always consider the context when interpreting body language. Like crossed arms might suggest defensiveness in one situation or simply that the person is cold in another.

some examples of positive body language:

  • Posture: Be relaxed but don't slouch. Stand up tall to c...

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Territoriality and Personal Space

People have an innate sense of personal space and territory, and how they react to the encroachment of their space can provide insights into their comfort levels and feelings towards the other person.

An example is students as they sit in class. Some students like to spread their backpa...

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Inappropriateness between Words and Body Language

Inappropriateness between Words and Body Language

Pay attention when someone’s words do not match their body language. This incongruence can be a telltale sign of what they might truly be thinking or feeling. For example, someone might tell you they are happy while frowning and staring at the ground. So when someone says one thing, but their...

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How to Read a Person Like a Book" by Gerard Nierenberg and Henry H. Calero is a guide on interpreting body language to understand people's real feelings and intentions. Here are some key principles which I've discussed here.

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