Granted, I have far more experience screwing up relationships than making them work well, but I still wanted to take a stab at a "healthy relationship" post. I didn't want to just make it a (yet another) "learn to communicate and cuddle and watch sunsets and play with puppies together" type post. You can find those posts just about everywhere. And honestly, those posts suck. If you love your partner, you shouldn't have to be told to hold hands and watch sunsets together. This stuff should be automatic.