The savior complex
It is defined by the constant need to try and save people by solving their problems. You have this syndrome, if:
- you feel attracted by vulnerable individuals
- you try to change the others, as you believe that you know what is better for them
- you always feel the need to provide a solution
- you are under the impression that only you can help them.
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