Why We Take Detours
The real thing requires genuine difficulty. Pretend activity is just difficult enough to make you think you're doing something that matters while avoiding the real difficult things.
The fake activity will make you feel better about yourself, but won't produce results.
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Life is like facebook. People will like your problems & comment, but no one will solve them because everyone`s busy updating theirs.
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