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Connor Lambert
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Pessimism Vs Optimism
Pessimism is defined as the anticipation of good or bad things to happen in the future, while optimism is generally considered the opposite. Optimism can be defined as the individual difference variable reflecting the extent of which we hold positive expectancies for the upcoming event.
The ways in which we think affects our health, well-being and success, even though the situations are the same.
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- Relationships
- Meaning
- Accomplishment
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Cherry Mary
@cmary510
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Self-handicapping
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When comparing defensive pessimists to anxious people who do not practice defensive pessimism, the defensive pessimists show these benefits:
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- They form more supportive friendship networks,
- They make more progress in their personal goals.
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