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The Bill Murray Technique: How To Improvise Through Anything

Tips to turn improvisation into a piece a cake

If you ever find yourself in need to improvise, but have no clue as how to manage this, have a look at the below tips:

  • listen carefully: in order to make sure you are doing it right, focus only on listening, make eye contact and understand as much as possible the other's feelings
  • accept the challenge: whenever you deal with uncertainty, embrace 'yes' rather than 'no'
  • get used to committing: the best way to connect to somebody is by actually committing to the discussion you are having with that very person.

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Improvisation

Improvisation is something we are all likely to deal with once in a while. Life is full of moments that require our skill to improvise, so we should try and improve at this, as it is not only necessary, but also extremely useful.

Tips to turn improvisation into a piece a cake

If you ever find yourself in need to improvise, but have no clue as how to manage this, have a look at the below tips:

  • listen carefully: in order to make sure you are doing it right, focus only on listening, make eye contact and understand as much as possible the other's feelings
  • accept the challenge: whenever you deal with uncertainty, embrace 'yes' rather than 'no'
  • get used to committing: the best way to connect to somebody is by actually committing to the discussion you are having with that very person.

Practice makes perfect

As in every field of our lives, also when it comes to improvisation, practice makes perfect. Therefore, go ahead and take advantage of every opportunity to practice your new skill.

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