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This Is How To Create Happy Memories That Will Last A Lifetime

Moments Of Connection

Working and struggling together in meaningful, challenging situations create great engagement and lifelong bonds.

The team activity which is result-oriented and is of the ‘low-ordeal’ type helps people get closer. This is seen in action in wartime when soldiers become lifelong brothers, having fought a war together.

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The 'First-Time' Theory states that our first job, first kiss, and other things that happened to us for the first time, have an extraordinary effect on our memory, leading to greater and more elaborate cognitive processing.

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Keep creating shared experiences

When you see a friend regularly, you develop a collection of shared memories. You will also have an intimate understanding of what they're up to generally. If you're separated long-term, those experiences will shrink.

It's important to create something you share with the other individual, not just exchanging information about past experiences. The more opportunities you give yourself to connect, the more organically you'll get to know your friend's new life.

It's going to take more effort

The idea that you can sustain a friendship and pick up right where you left off after long stretches of silence is a myth. A relationship grows stronger through nurturing.
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