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How to spot the real thing
- You get butterflies in your stomach when you see them.
- You desire their attention.
- Everything you knew about your 'type' is gone.
- You think about the person all the time.
- Romantic notions trump logic. You don't care about risk and reality.
- The idea of being with them seems like a great adventure.
- You're confident this is going to be the best relationship ever.
- You can picture your lives together.
- The attraction is real.
- You want to know everything about them.
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