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This Is How To Resist Distraction: 4 Secrets To Remarkable Focus - Barking Up The Wrong Tree

When faced with distraction, keep your goals in mind

Thinking about your long-term goals when you’re tempted by distraction gives your brain a sense of control and can release dopamine which will make you feel better and more motivated.

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