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Maxwell
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Clear Communication
- Comparisons, negative thoughts and hateful gestures need to be replaced by clear and kind communication, and being able to listen to and speak the truth.
- Relationships are hindered and broken with threats, belittling, mockery, teasing, name-calling and generally hostile behaviour.
- If the other person constantly receives signals that you hate them, it is very hard to resolve any dispute.
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