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Ask open and positive questions in tense situations

Ask more questions. In tense situations, many of us try to “tell” our way through it. We might become overly assertive, which usually makes the situation worse. Instead, try asking questions — ideally open-ended ones intended to create conversation. Put aside your own agenda, ask good questions , and have the patience to truly listen to the other person’s answers.

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  • Listen well.

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