Constructive Roles In The Relationship
- Victims can become creators who do not succumb to the temptation to wallow in the unfairness of it all. Let us be outcome-oriented instead of being problem-oriented.
- Persecutors can become challengers who urges the victims to clarify their needs and focus on their own learning and personal growth.
- Rescuers can become coaches who sees the victims being able to make their own choices and who can solve their own problems. They help the creators see the possibilities for positive action.
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