Disqualifying the positive
When you reject positive statements or occurrences by insisting they “don’t count” for some reason or another. For example, your boss praises you in front of your colleagues. When someone mentions it to you later, you say, “She said that because I was standing in front and she couldn’t avoid me.”
Whenever you disqualify the positive, you’re wrongly reinforcing negative beliefs about yourself and your world.
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