• Re-express your target’s position so clearly, vividly, and fairly that your target says, “Thanks, I wish I’d thought of putting it that way.”
• List any points of agreement.
• Mention anything you have learned from your target.
• Only then are you permitted to ...

1. Re-express your target’s position so clearly and fairly that your target says, “Thanks, I wish I’d thought of putting it that way.”
2. List any points of agreement.
3. Mention anything that you have learned from your target.
4. Only then are you permitted to say so much...

No, we are not over yet. After discussing the topic with my friend’s Dad (he is a doctor), I’ve made a list of things you need to understand and avoid anxiety attacks (hard to breathe moments).

1. Think of your anxiety as a biological problem, rather than thinking there is something wron...