MAKE OTHER PEOPLE COME TO YOU - USE BAIT IF NECESSARY
- When you force the other person to act, you are the one in control. It is always better to make your opponent come to you, abandoning his own plans in the process. Lure him with fabulous gains - then attack. You hold the cards.
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