Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment

These people show a strong preference towards independence and low levels of anxiety and insecurity about the security and stability of relationships.

• Positive view of themselves and negative view of others
• Report a comfort or desire to be without close emotional relationships
• Place strong value on independence and self-sufficiency, often far above emotional closeness
• Avoid strong attachments
• Tend to suppress or hide their feelings
• Can appear distant to others
• Often report that no partner can meet their standards
• In arguments and disagreements, they are more likely to withdraw physically and emotionally

(Note, given the assumption that human beings are social creatures and do want and need relationships in their life, it has often been argued that people categorised as dismissive-avoidant may be using this style as a defence)