We expect love in return for love.

LOVE in its genuine form is free-giving. It is the unconditional giving of oneself to another person.

Yet, why do we find ourselves delighted when our actions are reciprocated by our spouse, but resentful when they aren't?

Many times, this happens because we make our lover the primary source of our emotional gratification.

Once you find unique ways to make yourself happy, by yourself, your relationship would flourish in the same way.