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Misconception about Seduction

The Word Seduction has been sexualised so many times can't imagine it as a positive skill set. 

We typically associate seduction with something negative. We consider it as less honest, unprofessional and unacceptable form of skill. But Seduction is valuable life skill.

People say Money is bad. Money itself is not bad but it depends on how one use it. Same goes with seduction.

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The power of seduction in our everyday lives | Chen Lizra | TEDxVancouver

The power of seduction in our everyday lives | Chen Lizra | TEDxVancouver

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1. Desire- knowing what u want and having willingness to go after it. 

Its Learning where the emotion buttons are and triggiering them. 

2. Confidence- Have self confidence, no matter what your body type and shape is. Seduction leads to self confidence and self confidence leads to success.

3. Body language- tone of voice, looks, touch...its a way to clearly communicate what you want. Connect and interact.

4. Arosal- sprouting out desire. Waking them to desire to give what you want. One have to give undivided attention to learn this art.

5. Fearless of failure- don't worry about rejection. It may be no first, get convertes into may be and which later become yes, persistent trying is what it counts.

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  1. Focus on languange that is relevant. Think of it like using a tool, we master tools by using tools. We learn tools fastest, when they are relevant. 
  2. Use it as your way to communicate.
  3. Understand the messages. Focus on undertanding the messages first, then you will unconsciouly acquire the languange. A study even shows that people who had learned comprohensive input approach outsould people who had learned grammar and formal study.
  4. Your psychological state matters. If you are in state of being happy, relaxed, and enthusiastic, you are most likely learn and absorb new information quickly.

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How to learn any language in six months | Chris Lonsdale | TEDxLingnanUniversity

How to learn any language in six months | Chris Lonsdale | TEDxLingnanUniversity

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10000 hour rule was made to become master in any skill. not to learn any skill. You just need 20 hours man. The 4 steps to literally invest those 20 hours in the skill:

  1. Deconstruct the skill: make it to smaller parts; you do not need to learn 100 or more chords to play a guitar; the important ones will be cool too.
  2. Learn enough to self-correct: Do not be like "I will read these 20 books and then go programming." Read that much which makes you self-learn and teach.
  3. Remove the practice barriers: Remove the filthy distractions. 
  4. Practice at least 20 hours.

(Watch the video, it is melodious. ;) )

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The first 20 hours -- how to learn anything | Josh Kaufman | TEDxCSU

The first 20 hours -- how to learn anything | Josh Kaufman | TEDxCSU

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