A lot of people believe that have to butter the other person up in kind words that you do not believe are true about the person.
The reality is, the person will know what you are doing and be less inclined to believe you. So, to ask a favour you must be honest.
The person will only help when they can fully trust everything you are saying. That way, they feel encouraged to support you.
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